In an earlier post All Change, I discussed how the midwife system had changed since having my youngest child. It now seems that I was misadvised on the telephone and since having my booking-in appointment with the Midwife this week I now know what to expect over the next seven months.
The booking-in appointment did take place at the antenatal clinic at Leighton Hospital however, this was just because the midwife team rents a room there in a way so they can free up rooms at the GP’s surgery. These appointments ‘usually’ take an hour, mine took two. I guess every patient is different and with having three previous births and numerous pregnancies to document, I was lucky that it was only two hours and not longer.
The midwife herself seemed nice and approachable and is also one that I will be seeing again at the 16 week appointment at the GP surgery. She seemed thorough in collating the information on previous births and family medical history however, I did have to question the overall efficiency of the process. I’ve now had three of these booking-in appointments over the years and have repeated the same information over the three appointments. I was rather bemused that the hospital didn’t already have this information linked to my file considering all three of the children were born at the same hospital, as was I.
I am also rather upset that I am now limited to four cups of tea or coffee a day. This woman really doesn’t know me yet, that’s my hourly intake. I shall have to hunt out some decaffeinated tea bags and coffee and stop moaning about it. I was also forced to hold back tears when she went through the list of forbidden foods, almost two thirds of my diet was on that list. Oh how I want a runny egg now or a baked camembert with pecans and chilli. At least I don’t have to be responsible for cat litter duty anymore, always a silver lining to everything.
The next stop for me is an official scan and screening tests which will take place on the 28th July. The midwife was hoping to get me a quick appointment with the history of multiple births in the family and previous complications that I’ve had but I am not quite sure if this appointment is a speedy appointment or just their usual waiting times. I won’t grumble and just wait patiently till the 28th, yes me, wait patiently. Something that I’ll have to get used to again at Leighton Hospital, their appointments never run to schedule and I always seem to get forgotten or end up waiting two hours or more. Next time I shall go prepared with a book, a drink, a snack and the good old iPhone for company.